RULES & SEXUAL ETTIQUETTE

The sexual activity engaged in by swingers is often as varied as the people involved. As long as all activity is consensual, there is no right or wrong. No participation is ever required.

All members/guests/attendees must be 21 or older.

No single men are permitted. Couples or Single Ladies only.

We’re a social club “with benefits”. The best way to have a good time (at any kind of party) is to start talking to people and getting to know them. People almost always like to talk. They also usually don’t mind answering questions about swinging. If you’re interested in engaging with another couple or person, a conversation about their personal rules is a good way to start. It’s also a good way to avoid misunderstandings about boundaries, if there are any.

NO always means No!! “No” can be said at any part of the evening or at any stage of activity by anyone and it will always honored. Remember: some guests are exploring for the first time.If you are the one being declined, respect it, take it in stride, and keep on moving. Don’t take it personally.If you are the person saying no, be clear and be firm. You do not have to defend nor explain your no. You should however, be polite.

We have thrown parties of this nature for years and the number of confrontations or uncomfortable situations combined that haveoccurred can be counted on one hand. Nonetheless, should anything be remotely questionable, please notify a member of our staff immediately.

No exchange of bodily fluids of any kind without the consent of those involved. (Gentlemen, you know what this means. …And if for some reason you don’t know, find Donna and ask her what it means. She will tell you!)

Arrive together, indulge & leave together. Never leave the premises without your partner. Any couple hosting another person or couple is responsible for them.

Please eat and drink in designated areas only.

Drink responsibly. You’re coming here to have fun and probably get lucky. Yes, alcohol is fun and helps take the edge off, but puking for an hour because you had too many vodka shots will not help your game, your technique, … nor your breath.

Smoking is ONLY allowed in the designated smoking room.

The use or possession of drugs will not be tolerated on the premises. We are not passing judgement; we just do not want any illegal activity of any kind here. While we’re on the subject,no prostituion nor solicitation is permitted under any circumstance either.

Please gather & discard all used condoms, condom wrappers & miscellaneous garbage in receptacles provided.

No recording devices or the use of cameras of any kind is allowed in the club. We reserve the right to ask you to leave and never return if you break this rule.

We encourage the use of lockers as we are not responsible for misplaced belongings. Please keep valuables at home.

Blue Fantasy reserves the right to be selective. You should dress to impress – anything from business casual to cocktail attire is appropriate.

If you have any questions, concerns, comments, suggestions, or criticisms, write it on a $50 bill and give it to the bartender. (Ok, ok… I just wanted to make sure you were still with me here!)Seriously, though — we put a lot of effort into showing people a good time. We want to make sure we’re doing our absolute best and we take your feedback to heart. Don’t beleive me? Try us!! You’ll see!